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Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Wednesday, April 16, 2014
Many of you have heard of inflammatory breast cancer. Although very rare it is certainly worth being aware of. Below I have copied and pasted the information the American Cancer Society has posted on their website. This is a simple over view which explains the disease and how it differs from more common forms of breast cancer. Please take a moment to read and share with a friend! 

Inflammatory Breast Cancer


This document briefly describes inflammatory breast cancer. For more comprehensive information on this and other types of breast cancer, please refer to our document called Breast Cancer.

What is inflammatory breast cancer?

Injury, irritation, or infection can cause increase blood flow and the buildup of white blood cells in the body's tissues. This typically results in redness, warmth, and swelling in the involved parts of the body. This is called inflammation.
Inflammatory breast cancer displays the same symptoms that may occur with inflammation, like swelling, skin redness, and an orange peel like texture of the skin. But this does not mean that IBC (or its symptoms) is caused by infection or injury. The symptoms of IBC are caused by cancer cells blocking lymph vessels in the skin.
Inflammatory breast cancer (IBC) is rare and it differs from other types of breast cancer in its symptoms, prognosis (outlook), and treatment.
There is some disagreement in the numbers, but IBC probably accounts for about 1% of all breast cancers diagnosed in the United States. Some experts believe that IBC may be more common, but diagnosing it is often difficult. This can mean the disease is not being reported as often as it should be.

How is inflammatory breast cancer different from the more common types of breast cancer?

Inflammatory breast cancer causes symptoms that are often different from those of more common breast cancers. It rarely causes a breast lump, and it might not show up on a mammogram. Because it doesn't look like a typical breast cancer, it can be harder to diagnose.
IBC tends to develop at a younger age than the more common form of breast cancer (at an average age 52 versus 57 for non-inflammatory breast cancer). Also, African-American women appear to be at higher risk of IBC than white women. It also is more common among women who are overweight or obese.
IBC also tends to be more aggressive—it grows and spreads much more quickly— than more common types of breast cancer. Based on the way breast cancer is staged, it is never early stage breast cancer. It is always at least stage IIIB (locally advanced) when it is first diagnosed because the breast cancer cells have grown into the skin. Often, though, it has already spread (metastasized) to distant parts of the body when it is diagnosed, making it stage IV. The advanced stage of IBC, along with the tendency to grow and spread quickly, makes it harder to treat successfully than most other types of breast cancer.

Last Medical Review: 10/14/2013
Last Revised: 10/14/2013

(This information is copied and pasted from the American Cancer Society website. Please visit http://www.cancer.org/
for more information.)

Sunday, March 30, 2014

Sunday, March 30, 2014

Sadly, this month marked the passing of one of our community's best, Tracey Barnard. She is the gal who I spoke of some time back who had colon cancer with recurrences and whose husband has battled skin cancer. Tracey lost her battle leaving behind her husband and two children still at home. At only 41 she had battled cancer for a number of years and was nothing short of a peaceful warrior who never gave up. She fought each recurrence with strength and grace and daily made anyone who knew her wonder how she kept going and how she was still able to smile. So many have prayed so there is no denying she is wrapped in God's loving arms pain free at last. It's my prayer that her family can stay strong and keep her close at heart always. Tracey will be sadly missed by so many, but certainly by her third grade class who offered her so much love and support! Rest in peace my friend!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKDGlQLf7ls



  Monday, March 10, 2014

Sometimes it's amazing how difficult something so simple can be. I was to see my general surgeon in December. His office cancelled as he was to be out of town. We jointly cancelled early January due to a blizzard. On my third attempt, in weather that was not to be bad at all, I totaled my Suburban en route. Needless to say this visit was making me somewhat paranoid! Finally the weather cleared and I made it safe and sound.

After getting me situated in a room his nurse told me she had a patient who was really struggling with reconstruction. She often is not in the room for the final post op exams so she asked if I would be comfortable showing her the end result of my reconstruction. Of course I have continued to be very open with my experience and I was happy to show her. I mean really, at this point who really cares after all I've been through!  She was quite impressed with my finished product and asked if she could share my story of reconstruction with this patient as she knew I had struggled with the whole idea. I of course agreed and even gave her my number and offered to talk with this woman if it was in her comfort zone. To me it was not an inconvenience or an invasion of my privacy, but more of an honor that of all the women they see who have faced breast cancer, it was me who she thought would be compassionate and helpful to another patient.

My doctor came in and did a thorough exam. He felt I have very good results with my reconstruction and said it was no big deal that I did not continue on with the nipple reconstruction. He said as long as I got the result I was going for, simply some shape back, that's all that mattered. He said he was sorry he couldn't do a better job on the left side, the cancer side, but that he took all that he could of the tissue just to be safe. He did a great job and the only issue is with a small sunken area above my implant. Both he and my plastic surgeon said I can have a lipo injection to fill in that area. I have no desire to mess with it. To me it's just not a big deal. In the meantime I am to continue to be on the look out for any lumps, especially along the incision line. The odds are very slim for a recurrence with mastectomy but it can happen. My surgeon has signed off unless I should find an area of concern. That's a great feeling!!!

Wednesday, March 5, 2014


Wednesday, March 5, 2014


Ash Wednesday, the start of Lent as recognized by many Christians. My day started off with penance...going to 8am Mass and receiving ashes. No the Mass part wasn't the penance, it's the 8am!  I am completely a nocturnal creature and really don't do mornings before 9, but I did it!!! Often times I "give up" something but sometimes my Lenten focus is on "doing" something extra. This year I am going the "giving up" route and I am trying to "offer up" any stresses or roadblocks as penance. This was something taught to be by my mom and my aunt. Jesus suffered tremendously for our sins and I know that my trials and tribulations are really nothing compared to that. It just makes sense to put them in God's hands and to suffer through them as a form of thanking Him for His suffering.

What does all this have to do with cancer, illness, or daily struggles? Well, my thought was that by sharing this idea maybe those of you struggling with anything in your day to day journey may want to give it a try. We all have different ways of dealing with stress. It's my hope that by sharing this simple idea maybe someone else may find it helpful. Sending prayerful thoughts to all who may be troubled today!

Becky Bales Caron's photo.






Thursday, January 30, 2014

January 30, 2014

Winter blahs, cabin fever, seasonal depression, simply stir crazy? Does that sound familiar to anyone?  As far as I know the only one that I have experienced so far is the stir crazy.  Actually maybe it's just the "crazy" part.  "Minnie Paws" seems to be knocking at the door. I can feel periods of anxiety over sometimes absolutely nothing, my patience has been wearing thin, and I have had some night sweats. Oh the joys. My yearly was in December so the menopause discussion ensued. Of course with a history of breast cancer hormone therapy is not an option. It was a relief that my NP had some ideas to share. At least I have options.

Of course every day stress can be a huge factor and to say that our family has experienced stress would be an understatement. The fresh start to a new year hasn't panned out so well. Another friend from church has been diagnosed with breast cancer, her second occurrence as she has had thyroid. Yet another is awaiting testing in hopes her lump is a cyst, another has colon cancer and another continues on chemo for a recurrence. The new puppy has been sick and needed lots of extra attention. Kinsey had second thoughts on the whole engagement thing and I totaled my Suburban on black ice. The shooting at Purdue was quite frightening as Brad is on campus all the time for work. We know so many who attend and work there and they all were on my mind. And what about the crazy weather and of course the impending issues with the propane shortage?

I came home the other night and Brad was on the phone. Apparently I  looked pathetic because he grabbed me, gave me a big hug, and whispered "You look stressed." Good read dear, good read!  Feeling completely overwhelmed I solicited prayers from friends, and they could be felt immediately. Being a firm believer that God helps those who help themselves I tried to do my part. Our Jacuzzi tub is amazing therapy! Beyond that an evening glass of wine, some scrapping, painting toe nails with Kinsey, and cranking up some good tunes to drown out any stressful thoughts. Ahh, free therapy at it's best!

Needless to say February can't come soon enough, and after that Spring Break in March. Hallelujah!

Since I mentioned toe nails this seemed a fitting way to sign off. Now that is priceless free therapy!





Thursday, December 26, 2013

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Merry Christmas everyone!  I'm sure many are still celebrating with Christmas falling mid-week this year. At our home we celebrate through New Years and leave our decorations up for the full 12 days of Christmas that ends on the Epiphany. Love every minute of this blessed time of year!!!

I just wanted to take a moment to share a few holiday pics that were part of our special memories at the Deno home.

                                           Loved the early snow on our nativity.


"Brown paper packages tied up with strings. These are a few of my favorite things!"

                                                                     
                                                           Our gang!

                               
                                                24 years on December 30th


My sister had to "rig" our name drawing because she already had a gift for me...this awesome breast cancer purse!  The ornament was a little surprise from a dear friend and the necklace is from Kinsey. Love, love, love!

May you and yours continue to have safe and happy holiday celebrations and travels. Wishing the best to our troops currently serving, and praying for those who find the holidays a difficult lonely time. 
Blessing to you and your familys the remainder of 2013!

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Saturday, December 14, 2013

Good Grief Charlie Brown it's almost Christmas! Like all of you we've been busy celebrating Thanksgiving and prepping for Christmas. Working hard here to stay positive and trying to enjoy the things I take for granted. Seems there is always sad news but it always ramps up around the holidays.

Our neighbors lost their barn and 9 horses in a tragic fire this week. We have one family member that struggles every holiday affecting all those around. A friend who has been fighting cancer several years was just told it has spread again, this time to a major organ. And lastly a young gal at church, just 38 with a husband and three young children, has invasive breast cancer. Stress is everywhere!

Survivor's guilt. Very real, very tough. I have certainly been experiencing that these last several weeks. Father led the entire congregation in prayer for our member with breast cancer and I had to fight back the tears. So worried for her and her family yet so thankful once again for my health. Sometimes it's tough to know if I should reach out. So glad I did as our Christmas card from their family reflected appreciation for our conversations. Glad that sharing my experiences can help bring hope and peace to another. Really praying for these two ladies whose holidays are filled with doctor appointments and treatments!

Fortunately we ended our week on a much brighter note. Kinsey got home Tuesday night for her Christmas break. On Wednesday morning her boyfriend knelt at her bedside wearing a Carhart jacket. Inside was a puppy wearing a collar with a very special present! We now officially have a daughter who is engaged, a son-in-law to be, and a grandpuppy "Bruce"!!! Kinsey, Kybren, Kybren's mom and I celebrated with a brunch here. (Yes Kybren asked our permission so we had a head's up). From there he took Kinsey to get her nails done and then they ran the circuit to show grandparents and Godparents. Tonight we are invited to the Fosters for dinner and more celebration. Exciting times ahead!




Yesterday Brody learned he was accepted to Purdue University!  Boiler Up!!! It is right out our back door and actually was Brody's third choice. Now he has a huge decision to make-University of Indianapolis, IUPUI, or Purdue???  That's a great problem to have!  We are so proud of him and his dedication to homework, work, and sports. Pretty sure I could not handle the schedule he sets for himself.


As I type we are under a winter storm warning and I LOVE IT!  Big fan of snow but especially at Christmas time. It seems to add magic to the air and really kicks me into high gear for the holiday season. It is my hope that this beautiful marshmallow world brings joy and happiness to those facing difficult journeys, those who are alone, and those less fortunate in any way. Stay safe all and enjoy this winter wonderland!